‘Our friends always yearned for a relationship like ours’: My husband of 16 years left me for another man. I don’t want them to live in our properties. What can I do?

‘Our friends always yearned for a relationship like ours’: My husband of 16 years left me for another man. I don’t want them to live in our properties. What can I do?

This is a long story all wrapped with a complicated stupid mess.

My husband and I, a gay male couple, were together for 16 years. We are now in our early 40s. The relationship was a beautiful one, so much so that we were the envy of our straight and gay friends. Our friends always yearned for a relationship like ours, or so they told us.

During the 16 years together we both worked very hard, and we have properties both in the U.S. and Mexico. Together, our combined yearly income — both working full-time day jobs and operating a small cleaning business — was just over $300,000.

Late February 2021 he read some texts on my phone and flipped. He says he felt betrayed and that the idea of my being unfaithful could not escape his mind. I have not been unfaithful.

He said he needed some time to clear…

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